Guys and Gifts

     What's up everyone? it's been a while since I've blogged here, but I had a good friend of mine request for me to discuss a few topics, and I felt like these were pretty interesting topics, so here I am. With that being said, if there's anything you all who are reading this would like to see discussed, feel free to shoot me a message and if I like it, I'll try to discuss it here on my blog.
     Anyway, the first topic I was asked to discuss, was what do men like for anniversaries? Something practical, or something sentimental? For me, practical is the way to go here. When women buy sentimental gifts "for us," it's really something that they like themselves, and has sentimental value to them, that guys usually don't give a shit about. This really just comes down to knowing your guy, ladies, and knowing what he's in to. Get the practical gift. Get him something you know he'd appreciate when he receives it, not something you like and hope he'd appreciate. Hell for me, I'd rather not get a gift at all, than to get something that wasn't truly intended for me. So that's something to think about ladies.
     The second question was, about sex life from a man's perspective. Everything from the lack of sex, why their sex life, not their desire for sex, decreases, the woman's desire for it, men wanting to be desired, etc. Things may get a bit graphic here, but allow me to touch on these things. You know, to help out a friend. 😉👍
     Let's start with the lack of sex, from a male's perspective, and this is just me speaking here. To me all the rumors of getting married and the sex life decreasing are true. Definitely true. Things come up now, like kids, careers, or just lack of interest from the female party. When you're single or dating, you hump like wild animals all the time. But the moment a ring is put on a finger and you say I do, women say, I don't! As in, I don't feel like it, or, I don't think we have enough time, or I don't want to. You gotta stop that ladies, because those same statements don't work for men. If a man declines sex, a woman will automatically think worst case scenario. Either he's gay or he's cheating or he's not attracted to you anymore, which isn't always the case. Without going too deep into my personal life, I can say that I attempted to decline sex once. Was real tired that day, and was falling asleep watching the game. But, the sad look that accompanied my declination, made me put my game face on, and go to work! So that's why I would say the sex life decreases.
     As for the woman's desire for it, to me, I think in most cases, not all, women just get comfortable when in relationships and don't feel that that part is as important once they have the man, which leads to the decline. You go from sex 4-5 times a week, to 2-3 times on a good week, to 1-2 times average. Also, the fact that men usually always have to be the initiator is a turn off too. Guys like to be desired too ladies. It's OK for you to be the aggressor from time to time.
    I was also asked as a side note relating to this, do things such as handjobs and blowjobs help the situation for men, I guess as opposed to strictly humping. To that, I answer with a resounding YES!!! A wise lady friend of mine once said, and I quote, " A blowjob a day, keeps the bitches away!" I believe that statement to be true, but I also suggest this ladies. You should all implement something I like to refer to as, "Suckoff Saturday." It's an instant win, and is something guaranteed to make your man happy. But, if you just don't feel like doing that (which you should, I mean damn, it's 2015!), then a nice massage, finished off with a handy or a happy ending always works as well.
     Anyway, I went a little long on this one, but I just wanted to share some perspective with you all. Fellas, what's something I missed here? Is there anything else we can do to help the ladies please us? Oh yeah, communication is key! Let your ladies know what you like fellas, so that they won't do those wack sentimental gifts thinking it's a great idea. My friend that suggested these topics was really looking for male's perspective, so anything else that you all can contribute I'm sure will help. That's it for me. Thanks for reading, and I'll catch you on the next one. Peace.